For several years, the family of Frances Melfi has graciously supported resident events at Ohio Living Breckenridge Village, such as Frances’ Ice Cream Social with an ice cream truck and steel drum band, and Frances’ Holiday Party with polka music and Christmas cookies. Their continued support stems from a desire to honor their mother’s life and legacy.
Frances Melfi moved to Ohio Living Breckenridge Village in 2014. “All six of her children were involved in her transition to the community,” explained Cathy Melfi, her daughter. “We loved the facilities, staff and people residing at the community, and my mom absolutely thrived there. Over the course of seven years, she was highly involved in activities, especially her favorite – chair yoga. She truly loved her neighbors and all the staff.”
During the pandemic, Frances broke her ankle and underwent surgery, initially moving into the Fairmount Health & Rehabilitation Center and then, long-term care. While Frances was in longterm care, the family provided financial support so that the activities staff could purchase things like CD players, hand-held games, and other items that helped residents pass the time when visitation was restricted. In the summer of 2021, the Melfi family funded an ice cream social on campus for the residents and staff. “I saw how happy it made everyone, including my mom, and it was fulfilling to give back and spread some joy, particularly on the heels of COVID, when things were difficult for everyone,” Cathy recalled.
Sadly, Frances passed away in September 2021, not long after that ice cream social. She left a lasting impression that is rooted in kindness. “Making an annual gift to support residents is a way of carrying on our mother’s legacy,” Cathy shared. “She always had an uncanny ability to know what would brighten up someone's day. Whether it was a visit, a loaf of home-baked bread or a home-made dinner, she and our dad would quietly make it happen. It’s meaningful to continue her selfless example by financially contributing to events that celebrate residents, as well as staff, who do such an amazing job taking care of them.”
Luci, the activities director at Ohio Living Breckenridge Village, knows first-hand how much community members look forward to these types of “extras.” “We love being able to provide special moments for residents and transform common days into grateful blessings of joy,” she explained. “We do a lot, but support from families like the Melfis enable us to do even more.”
The most recent event the Melfi family supported was Frances’ Ice Cream Social in September 2024, held at the community’s Nason Parking Lot. The gathering included ice cream treats and live entertainment for residents and staff. “Generous gifts like these give residents the opportunity to honor and remember their friends who have passed in a joyful way,” added Eva Allen, director of gift planning at Ohio Living Breckenridge Village. “It’s hard saying goodbye to people you’ve grown close to over the years but having the opportunity to think about them and celebrate their lives and memories brings great comfort.”
If you are interested in learning more about how you can make an impact through planned giving, reach out to us at giving@ohioliving.org today!